How and what to do during quiet time
Written by: Lamis Benjelloun
I always had a complicated relationship with naps. I loved that I could predictably plan to have some kid-free time when my kids were napping but I also hated that they almost always were timed at exactly when everyone else wanted to hang out. No we can’t come to lunch because my son is napping. No we can’t do swim lessons because its nap time. But when my youngest was ready to stop napping, I definitely wasn’t ready to lose that solid 90 minutes of uninterrupted me time.
But I also knew that his body was not ready to just keep going for 12 hours until bedtime. He needed time to rest and so do most kiddos. So we replaced nap time with quiet time. Quiet time is 60-90 minutes of your child’s day, usually around midday, where your child is doing activities that do not require much physical effort. It is basically a good time for your child to rest and recharge to be able to tackle the rest of the day.
Here are a few steps to help you implement quiet time in your house :
An easy way to do this is to just use the time that used to be nap time. Right around mid-day, maybe after lunch. Most kids will have difficulty just sitting in one place for a long time so start small and work your way up. For example, you can do 20 minutes of quiet time for the first few days and then gradually increase it to 60 or 90 minutes.
Making quiet time location-specific makes it special and easy for your child to adopt the concept. It can be a special tent, a corner of his room or a special couch. Close the curtains a little to slightly dim the general room light and make the environment relaxing. This means no tv’s or tablets because although no physical effort is required in watching tv, the content children usually watch tends to be stimulating.
Children are more likely to agree to quiet time if they have something to look forward to during that time. Take a shoe box or a storage bin and call it the “Quiet Time Box.” Involve your child in the project of choosing activities that they can put in the box and only use during quiet time. Let them decorate the box the way they choose as well. This will not only get them excited about the concept, it will also help give them ownership of the process.
Put away the quiet time box at the end of every quiet time.
Change the activities inside every few weeks.
What can you include in your box, you may ask. Any activity that they would enjoy doing without running around basically… This can include (but not limited to) :
Do you do quiet time in your house? What kind of activities do your children enjoy during that time?
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