Working with Dad

lbenjell • June 21, 2021

How having a team is always a good idea

Written by: Lamis Benjelloun

I often get to work with moms.  They are the ones who bear the brunt of the sleep issues that their babies are experiencing and they are the ones that feel the need to make a change.  And when I hear from their supporting spouses, they are usually and understandably apprehensive but also very concerned about helping both their baby and their spouse get more sleep.  But from time to time, I get a father who is super involved and dead set on bringing sleep changes to their home.  In the last couple of years, I have watched numerous families make significant changes to their life by bringing healthy sleep habits to their babies, but here is how working with an involved dad looks different:

Four ears are better than two

Having a team of two, mom and dad, is not always possible but usually makes the process easier than working solo.  First of all, when both parents attend the consultation, there is a deeper understanding of the process and plan.  This idea is kind of self evident as whatever mom may miss or misunderstand, dad can get and vice versa.

Less risk of sabotage

When everybody is on the same page, both parents are working towards the same goal that they have set together.  They agree on the plan together, understand the challenges they may face and have a common goal to work for.  This not only holds them accountable to one another, it increases the chances of success.  When both mom and dad agree, there is less chance that one parent will undermine or sabotage the hard work that the other parent it doing.

Support system

Let’s be honest here, sleep training is hard.  In fact, making any changes to your routine with baby is hard.  There will be many victories along the way but there will also be many difficult times and many moments of doubt.  Working as a team, you can support each other through it all.  You can celebrate together.  You can also help each other when things are hard and remind each other of why you are doing all of this.

And sometimes, babe sleeps better when dad does bedtime…

There! I said it! Babes, especially breastfed ones, generally sleep better when dad does bedtime. I believe the “secret” that everyone knows here is that dads can’t breastfeed.  You know it, I know it, dad knows it, and most importantly BABY knows it.  And this can work to your advantage!  When baby wakes up to nurse, mom can breastfeed and then had over to dad to settle them back to sleep.  This helps immensely when you are either trying to prevent any sleep associations or trying to eliminate them.

I have come across enough families to understand that it is not always easy or even possible to have both mom and dad be involved at bedtime.  But when it is possible, having a team does have its advantages.  What does bedtime look like in your family?

By Sophie Huang September 29, 2025
Choosing a car seat is one of the most important decisions you’ll make as a parent. It’s not just about convenience — it’s about giving your child the best protection on every journey . In the UAE, where we drive long distances, face busy roads, and deal with extreme heat, the right car seat matters more than ever. But with so many options, how do you know which one to choose? Here are our top 4 tips to make car seat shopping easier — and safer. 1. PRIORITIZE SEATS THAT UNDERGO THE TOUGHEST CRASH TESTING Not all car seats are created equal. Many parents think if a seat is “legal,” it must be safe — but that’s not always true. ECE R44 : The most basic standard, now phased out in Europe. ECE R129 (i-Size) : Stricter testing with better head, neck, and side-impact protection. The Swedish Plus Test : The toughest crash test in the world — and the gold standard. What makes the Swedish Plus Test so important? It’s the only test that measures neck forces on a child’s body in a crash. Seats that pass prove they can keep neck loads below dangerous limits — a key factor in preventing serious injury. Many car seats fail completely under this extreme test, which shows just how high the bar is. 👉 If a car seat has passed the Swedish Plus Test , you can be confident it offers the highest level of safety for your child. 💡 Remember: Legal does not always mean safe . Go beyond the minimum. 2. CONSIDER YOUR CHILD'S HEIGHT, WEIGHT, AND AGE — EVEN THE SMALLEST ONES Every child grows differently, and size matters when it comes to safety. Preemies and smaller babies : Standard carriers often don’t provide the right fit. They need extra support for the head, neck, and body, plus proper harness positioning. Twins or multiples : Planning seating for two (or more) at once requires careful choice so every child gets the safest setup. As children grow, their height and weight percentiles determine how long a seat will last. We recommend car seats with at least a 25kg weight limit and 125cm height limit , which allow for extended rear-facing travel . Why rear-facing ? Research shows it is up to 5 times safer than forward-facing for children up to 6–7 years old. Better crash force distribution across the strongest part of the body. Superior head and neck protection , preventing the whip-forward motion that can cause spinal injury. Cocoon-like shell protection against front and side impacts. 💡 Bonus for UAE parents: The BeSafe Go Beyond with Preemie Inlay was designed with neonatal nurses to support even the tiniest babies. It features a removable wedge for better harness fit and breathable mesh fabric — keeping your baby safe and cool in our hot weather. 3. MATCH THE CAR SEAT TO YOUR CAR AND LIFESTYLE Your car seat needs to fit not just your car — but your daily routine . Multiple cars? Choose a seat that’s easy to install/uninstall. Growing family? Invest in a seat with a long lifespan that can be passed down. Seat placement? Consider if it will go behind the passenger, in the middle, or side by side with another child seat. Bigger families? Narrow but safe seats can fit 3-across or work well in 7-seaters, without compromising protection. Example from our family setup: Mummy’s car : BeSafe Flex Fix 2 for Sofia (8y) + BeSafe Stretch for Leo (5y). Daddy’s car: Axkid One3 for Leo + BeSafe Flex Fix 2 for Sofia. The Axkid One3 was chosen because Daddy often removes the seat, and installation takes under 30 seconds . 👉 Key takeaway: The “best seat” isn’t the one your friend uses — it’s the one that fits your child, your car, and your lifestyle . 4. DON'T COMPROMISE — BUY FROM A CHILD CAR SEAT SPECIALIST Buying from a specialized retailer ensures peace of mind: They recommend a seat that fits your child, car, and routine . They install it correctly and show you how. If the seat doesn’t fit, they won’t install it — and they’ll help you find one that does. They’ll reinstall it whenever you need , for example when changing cars, at no extra cost. At Safety On Board , we offer 1-1 car seat consultation and hands-on support to make sure your child rides safely every time. FINAL THOUGHTS A car seat isn’t just another baby item — it’s life-saving equipment. Whether you’re bringing home a preemie, juggling twins, or moving a big kid into a booster, the right seat + the right suppor t makes all the difference. If you’re unsure where to start, contact us and book a consultation with us. We’ll help you find the perfect fit for your child, your car, and your family. Because every child in the UAE deserves the safest ride 💛 Sophie Huang is the founder of Safety on Board , the UAE’s first child car seat specialist. She is also a mom of 2 and an internationally certified car seat expert . With a passion for keeping children as safe as possbile on UAE road, she guides parents in choosing and installing the safest car seats. Sophie believes safety can be simple, stress-free, and empowering for every parent.
By lbenjell June 10, 2025
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By Guest author: Belinda Kirk October 7, 2024
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