The only constant about baby sleep is that there is no constant. Am I right? Just when you feel like you have a rhythm, you figured out what your baby needs and you can rely on somewhat of a schedule, BAM! things change. In comes a nap transition and with it comes changing schedules, an adjustment period, some over tiredness and maybe even some early morning wakes. This blog post is one of four in a series of posts delving into the world of nap transitions. To read more about the 4-3 transition, you can click here.
As a parent, you’re likely in one of two groups:
Group A) Your child sleeps beautifully and takes long, restful naps during the day.
Group B) Your child doesn’t know what a nap is, and if you’re lucky enough to get a nap in, it comes with a lot of protest.
Regardless of the group you’re in, when children transition from one nap schedule to another, it can sometimes come with new challenges.
Children may go from easily falling asleep for their naps to protesting one (or all!) of them. Or they may not be able to stay awake until bedtime, leaving you wondering how you’re supposed to accomplish the nap schedule transition.
While all nap transitions can be challenging, some families find the 3-2 nap transition to be the easiest, as the third nap sometimes naturally drops on its own. However, this isn’t always the case, and just like with any other transition, it can leave your child overtired and leave you frustrated. But it doesn’t have to be that way!
No matter where you are in the 3-2 nap transition – whether you’re just about to start or have a few months to go and simply want to be prepared – I want to equip you with the tools to identify when your baby is ready so that you feel confident throughout the process.
The Signs
The first step to successfully helping your little one transition from 3 naps to 2 is to ensure that they are ready. While all children are different and will have their own timeline, here are a few signs that your little one may be ready to drop to 2 naps:
- Your baby is between 7-9 months old
- The first two naps are consolidating nicely (each at least an hour long)
- The third nap is becoming more difficult to achieve
- When the third nap does occur, it causes bedtime to be too late
Once you’ve identified that your baby is ready for 2 naps, it’s time to gradually transition them into their new schedule.
The Transition
The process of dropping from 3 naps to 2 is going to be unique for each baby. For some children, they will naturally drop their 3rd nap, and for others, they require a little more guidance from their parents.
The best way to transition to a new nap schedule is to gradually begin to extend your baby’s
wake windows
throughout the day.
For example, if your baby normally follows 2-hour wake windows, you’ll begin to push their awake time by about 15 minutes each day until you are at your child’s ideal wake widow. If you’re unsure what wake window your child should be following, you can find a suggested breakdown by age
here.
It’s important to remember that when you’re dropping to 2 naps, you’ll likely have to move bedtime up a little earlier for a few days. Making this transition isn’t a race – we want to follow your baby’s lead and take our time.
Secrets of the 2-Nap Schedule
After following a 2-nap schedule for a few days, you can begin to move to a clock-based schedule where naps occur at the same time each day. For some families, this is the best part of a 2-nap schedule – they know when their child’s naps will be each day!
Here’s a sample 2-nap schedule based on a 7 a.m. wake up:
Wake up: 7 a.m.
Nap 1: 9:30 am
Nap 2: 2 p.m.
Bedtime: 7 p.m.
As you transition to your new 2 nap schedule, there may be days where your little one seems overly tired. If that’s the case, you can do one of two things:
Option 1: Offer a “rescue nap.” If nap 2 was really short, or you feel your little one just isn’t able to make it to bedtime, you can fit a short nap in between nap 2 and bedtime. However, it’s important that you don’t offer a rescue nap every day, as we’re working to help your little one adjust to their new 2-nap schedule!
Option 2: My personal go-to recommendation for situations where your child is really tired is to move bedtime earlier for the day. As your child gets used to their 2-nap schedule, they’ll adjust back to their normal bedtime.
If the thought of making this transition alone is overwhelming, I invite you to schedule a
20-minute Discovery Call
with me. During our call, we can chat about your child’s current sleep situation, what’s causing the overwhelm, and how I can support you through the process.
Making changes in your child’s routine and sleep habits is never easy.
But together, we can ensure everyone in your house is getting the sleep they need to be the most confident, well-rested version of themselves possible.
I can’t wait to chat more with you!