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Night Lights in Your Child’s Room: What to Consider
Jul 18, 2022
Pop quiz: On a scale from 1 to 10, how dark should your child’s room be when they sleep?
If you’ve already read my blog on the perfect sleep environment, then you know your child’s room should be completely dark to ensure their melatonin production isn’t inhibited by any lights.
But why is having a dark room so important, and are there any situations where you can have night lights on in your child’s room?
Let’s dive into that!
Why does darkness matter?
At the foundation of a perfect sleep environment for your child, you want their room to be dark. In fact, ensuring their room is dark has many benefits:
- Melatonin (the hormone that plays a big role in your child’s sleep) is produced when it’s dark. Melatonin can help your child fall asleep and stay asleep, ensuring they get the rest their bodies need.
- When your child’s body detects light, regardless of how bright, melatonin production is inhibited. Light signals to the body that it’s time to wake up, and if your child’s room has light coming through the windows or has a lamp on all night, their body is receiving the message that it’s not time to sleep. This is one of the reasons I suggest getting blackout curtains for your child’s room.
- Light can be distracting for young children. When babies wake up in the middle of the night and see light, their attention is drawn to that (and everything illuminated), rousing them further from sleep.
Not only can a dark environment help keep your child sleeping longer, but it truly impacts the quality of sleep they’re getting. Since melatonin impacts your child’s circadian rhythm (their wake-sleep cycle), optimizing their room for sleep sets the stage for healthy sleep long term.
But what about night lights?
Even with the understanding that a dark room is best for sleep, many parents may wonder if they can use a night light in their children’s room.
My answer: It really depends – there are situations where having a night light is appropriate and useful, and situations where it’s not needed.
During the 4th trimester
During the fourth trimester when you’re stumbling through the dark to feed your baby and change their diaper, having a night light can help tremendously. In this situation, you may not need to have the night light on all night, only when you’re in the room so that you can see.
However, if you can do without a night light, then there’s no need to get one!
When your child is afraid of the dark
Later in your child’s life, when they’re around 2 or 3 years old, it could be appropriate to use a night light if your child has vocalized they’re scared of the dark. You may be able to turn a night light on at the start of the bedtime routine and turn it off after your child has fallen asleep, depending on the situation.
It’s important to note that the fear of the dark doesn’t develop until your child is in their toddler years and their imagination has begun to develop. In the infant months, your child isn’t afraid of the dark. Remember, your womb was absolutely dark, and they were perfectly safe and happy there.
Chances are, if your infant seems afraid of the dark, it’s likely another issue that’s going on, and we can always set up a consultation
to figure out what it seems to be.
What kind of night light can we use?
If you know that having a night light is appropriate and would be beneficial for your child or you, there is one key fact to remember:
Opt for orange or red-toned lights.
Traditional night lights that have white or blue light are registered by your child’s body the same way that the sunlight is: “It’s time to wake up! Stop the melatonin production!”
Red or orange-toned lights don’t have that same impact on melatonin production, so they’re the best option to use.
For some families, they find that using a regular lamp and replacing the bulb with a red or orange light works sufficiently. Others will opt for a color changing nightlight that doubles as a toddler clock to communicate expectations to their child.
Which night light you use isn’t as important as the color of the light, so keep that in mind.
Remember, if there isn’t a need for a night light, then having one isn’t a necessity. Ultimately, while a night light could be helpful in some situations, ensuring your child’s room is as dark as possible will promote the best restorative sleep.
If you’re struggling with other aspects of your child’s sleep and you’re not sure what could be done to help everyone in your house get the sleep they deserve, let’s set up a free Discovery Call
today.
In just 20 minutes, you’ll be able to share all about what’s keeping you up at night, and we can get started on a path to more restful nights.
You’ve got nothing to lose and a lot of sleep to gain!
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