Enrolling your child in daycare can come with mixed emotions – you may be sad to see your little ones enter a new environment, as it marks a big transition in their growth. And at the same time, you may love seeing how your kids flourish and learn in daycare, surrounded by other children and adults.
Both of my kids went into daycare really young, at 18 months and almost 2 years old. Watching my boys become other people was an amazing experience, and I believe that nursery can be a great place for children to grow.
But I know daycare isn’t home, and because of that, you may have worries or questions about your child’s sleep and how they will adapt in a completely new environment.
While you may not have complete control over the policies your child’s daycare follows, I’ve compiled a list of questions you can ask potential daycare providers to give you peace of mind and ensure your little one is getting the best opportunity for sleep.
Communicate with Your Daycare
While you won’t be able to mold nurseries to make them fit your every need, you’d be surprised at what they are able to do when you talk to them. After all, you are a client of theirs, and they likely want to keep you and make you happy.
Here is a list of questions you can ask your daycare, as well as a brief explanation for why that question may be important for you.
Questions About the Sleep Environment
Where your child sleeps has a huge impact on how well your child sleeps. While your daycare provider may not have much control over the layout of the space, knowing this information can help you make a decision about whether the nursery is the right fit for your child.
Whenever I would ask any question to potential daycares, I never asked with the intent of having them change anything – it was simply good for me to have the data about what could be impacting my child’s sleep.
Here are a few questions to keep in mind:
- Where will my child nap?
- Is the sleep area near a play area?
- Do you darken the room during nap time?
You can also ask about any flexibility within these situations, like whether it’s possible to have your child sleep as far away as possible from play areas to prevent the sound of other kids from waking your little one up.
Questions About Safety
Of course, the top priority for choosing a daycare is whether your child is safe. When it comes to their sleep, you can ask:
- What will the kids sleep on?
- If my baby is napping in a crib, what’s in that crib with him?
- What safe sleep practices do you follow?
All daycares will vary here, but I’ve had some clients share that their 6 month old’s daycare used hammocks for nap time. Other nurseries will use a cot that is off the floor. Of course, if you have a younger baby, you want to make sure they’re in a crib.
Knowing whether the nursery follows safety sleep guidelines is vital. If you don’t feel comfortable with how your child is sleeping, follow your instincts and advocate for what you know is best.
Questions About Nap Timing
If you’ve done any sleep training, then you know that when your child naps can influence how your child sleeps. Again, some daycares won’t have any flexibility in nap times, but asking these questions can help you make the best decision for your child.
- What time is the nap?
- Do you wake up the kids from the nap, or do you let them sleep as long as they can?
- If my child is placed in a class without a nap, can he move into a class with a nap?
Knowing when nap time is planned and how long your child naps can help you make a plan for sleep after daycare.
And of course, if you don’t feel comfortable with the answers they give you, you can ask whether there is any chance they can do something different, like put your child down for a nap first and wake them last.
Questions About Accommodations
Don’t be afraid to ask questions about what the daycare is able to accommodate. Again, we’re not approaching the situation in a demanding way, but if you don’t ask, you’ll never know if they’d be willing to do something for your child.
Here are a few questions you can consider, based on your child’s sleep needs and preferences:
- Do you play lullabies during nap time? Is it possible for me to bring a sound machine to play near the crib?
- Can I bring my child’s blanky for her to sleep with?
- My child usually takes a bottle before he naps – will you be able to give one to him before his nap?
- How much assistance is provided to help children fall asleep?
- What happens if my child doesn’t nap?
You know your child best and whether they need anything special in order to sleep well. Asking the right questions is nothing to be ashamed of, and you never know – sometimes, they’ll listen to you and make the accommodations for your child.
What Happens if My Child Doesn't Sleep Well at Daycare?
Sometimes, despite your best efforts, your child still won’t sleep well away from home. That’s normal and expected!
For the first couple of weeks after starting daycare, do an earlier bedtime to help your child make up for the extra activities, emotions, and stimulation they’ll receive in nursery. And remember not to stress over what you ultimately have little control over.
In a few weeks, your child will adapt to the new schedule and environment, and things will get easier for everyone involved.
If your little one is starting daycare and you’d like to talk to someone about this transition, I invite you to send me an email to help you navigate this new venture!