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What’s the Perfect Sleep Environment?

lbenjell • January 19, 2021

The secrets to making your kid’s bedroom more conducive for sleep

Written by Lamis Benjelloun

Parents often tell me that they want their children to be able to sleep anywhere.  Meaning they want them to get used to sleeping with noise around them so that they don’t have to spend the entire evening tiptoeing around the house.  Or that they don’t want to make the room too dark because their kids might become afraid of the dark.  But what if I told you that the quality of your child’s sleep depends on the environment that they are sleeping in ? Well here is the deal with sleep spaces.

The perfect sleep environment is safe

First and foremost, baby’s sleep environment must be safe to ensure their safety and security.  This means different things for different ages.  If your babe is under 12 months, sleep environment equals a crib (or bassinet or pack-n-play) plus a firm mattress and a fitted sheet.  That’s it! No bumpers, no positioners, no pillows, no blankets and definitely no toys.  Babies in this age group are at risk for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).  And while it is difficult to completely eliminate the risk of SIDS, we can reduce its incidence by keeping baby’s sleep space free of any item that may represent an entrapment, suffocation or strangulation hazard.

As your child grows, the safety of their sleep space takes on different meanings.  They can now stand in their crib and reach for things that may be at arm’s length.  So your mission now is to keep wires, strings, curtains or what have you away from their little arms’ reach.  And if your little one is a budding gymnast and is already attempting to climb on the crib rails, remove any pillows or such items that he or she can use to step up and jump out of the crib.

As they transition out of their crib into a bed, we do still want to keep the room safe for our children in case they are up at night and walk around their room.  Make sure that all furniture is bolted to the walls and that nothing can cause them to trip.  Safety gates on staircases are also helpful if your kiddo has a habit of walking out of their room.

The perfect sleep environment is dark

As we get ready for sleep, the body starts producing melatonin, the sleep hormone.  This production is triggered when night time is detected.  Artificial lights — whether that’s coming from a night light, TV, monitor or street light — mimic natural sunlight which is associated with wakefulness.  This results in a reduction in the production of melatonin.  It becomes easy to understand then, that the darker the room the better the sleep.

But wait, what if you are worried that your baby is scared of the dark?  Remember where your baby spent the first 9 months of their life?  In absolute darkness inside the womb, so young babies are not scared of the dark.  This becomes an issue later in the toddler+ years when their imagination starts running wild.  But you, as the caregiver, might need a night light to see your way around a night feed or diaper change.  In that case, choose a dim light that has a red or orange tone.  These tones are less disruptive to levels of melatonin than the blue and white lights.

Here is a pro tip: use black-out curtains in your kids’ rooms to completely darken their room and block out sunlight during naps and bedtime.  They are also handy if any streetlights can be seen from their windows.

The perfect sleep environment is cool

As you begin to prepare for sleep, your body’s temperature starts to drop.  This is due to internal temperature shifts that happen during the near 24 hour period known as circadian rhythms.  In fact, your body’s temperature continues to drop until it reaches its lowest point around dawn.  As the temperature of the sleep environment can affect your own body’s temperature, it can risk disrupting your sleep.  The same goes for babies.  So keep the room temperature cool to honor the body’s need to drop its own temperature.  I could tell you an exact range to set your A/C to but you are probably the best judge of whether your baby looks cool and comfortable or hot and flustered.  Always make sure that they are not sweating or that their cheeks are not flushed.  And the best way to gauge their body’s temperature is usually not their extremities (hands and feet), go ahead and stick your fingers or hand down their neck or in their chest to have a better sense of how warm or cold they are.

The perfect sleep environment is quiet

Environmental noises, such as traffic or regular house noises, can affect a baby’s sleep and fragment it.  In fact, research shows that noise during sleep can alter the amount of time you spend in certain sleep stages.  So while your best friend may tell you that she worked hard to get her baby to sleep through any noise, it is in fact better for them to sleep in a quiet environment.  But if you live in a busy city or have older children or are just a normal human being who wants to maybe catch up on Netflix when your baby sleeps, you know that absolute silence is not possible.  In that case, you can add a constant background noise, or white noise, that can mask any sounds that are out of your control.  This way, baby can sleep in an environment that has an even tone and volume of sound to counteract the effect of noise disturbances. You can achieve this through a white noise machine or app, but you can also get the job just as well done using a fan or A/C.  Should you opt for a white noise machine, remember to think about safety.  Use your common sense to make sure its volume is not too loud and that the machine is placed far enough from baby. For reference, the the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends not exceeding a volume of 50 decibels and that the machine should never be placed inside the crib or on the crib rails.

So the next time your sister, friend or neighbor rave about how their baby can sleep just about anywhere or through anything, find comfort in the fact that you know that your child’s sleep quality is much better because their sleep environment is safe, dark, cool and quiet.

Snug and Safe: How Baby Sleep Bags Protect Your Little One

By Guest author: Belinda Kirk • October 7, 2024
October is SIDS Awareness Month, dedicated to raising awareness about Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. It’s a time to educate parents and caregivers on safe sleep practices that can reduce the risk and help protect our little ones.. At Hushabye, safety is at the heart of our brand. Our focus is on providing parents with safe and high-quality baby sleepwear, such as sleep bags, that offer a safer alternative to traditional blankets. What is a baby sleep bag? A baby sleep bag, also known as a wearable blanket or sleep sack, is a specially designed garment for infants and young children to wear during sleep. The primary purpose of a sleep bag is to keep the baby warm and comfortable, but it also serves as a safe and convenient alternative to traditional blankets and quilts in a crib or cot.

The Vital Link Between Sleep and Mental Health: A Guide for Parents and Kids

By lbenjell • May 20, 2024
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, sleep often takes a back seat to other priorities. Yet, the importance of sleep for mental health cannot be overstated, especially for parents and their children. From infancy through adulthood, sleep plays a crucial role in maintaining emotional stability, cognitive function, and overall well-being. Let’s delve into the intricate relationship between sleep and mental health, exploring its significance for both parents and kids. Understanding Sleep: The Foundation of Mental Health Sleep is not merely a passive state of rest; it's a dynamic process that facilitates vital functions for physical and mental health. During sleep, the brain consolidates memories, processes emotions, and regulates various physiological processes. For children, especially infants and toddlers, sleep is paramount for healthy growth and development. It's during sleep that their brains form crucial neural connections, essential for learning and behavior regulation. Sleep and Parental Mental Health For parents, particularly those with young children, sleep deprivation is often a common occurrence. The demands of caring for a newborn or attending to the needs of a growing child can disrupt sleep patterns, leading to chronic sleep deficits. This chronic sleep deprivation can take a toll on parental mental health in several ways: Increased Stress and Anxiety : Sleep-deprived parents often experience heightened stress levels and anxiety. The constant fatigue and inability to get adequate rest can exacerbate feelings of overwhelm and tension. Impaired Cognitive Function : Lack of sleep impairs cognitive function, making it difficult for parents to concentrate, make decisions, and problem-solve effectively. This can further contribute to feelings of inadequacy and frustration. Mood Disorders : Chronic sleep deprivation is linked to an increased risk of mood disorders such as depression and irritability. Parents may find themselves more prone to mood swings and emotional instability, impacting their ability to nurture a positive environment for their children. Strained Relationships : Sleep deprivation can strain relationships, leading to conflicts and communication breakdowns between partners. This can create additional stressors, further exacerbating mental health challenges. Sleep and Child Mental Health Just as sleep is crucial for parental well-being, it's equally essential for children's mental health and development. Adequate sleep is associated with numerous benefits for children, including: Emotional Regulation : Sufficient sleep plays a vital role in emotional regulation, helping children manage their feelings and behaviors effectively. Children who get enough sleep are often more resilient to stress and less prone to mood disturbances. Cognitive Development : Sleep is essential for cognitive development in children, as it supports learning, memory consolidation, and problem-solving skills. A well-rested child is better equipped to succeed academically and socially. Behavioral Health : Sleep disturbances in children are closely linked to behavioral problems such as hyperactivity, impulsivity, and aggression. Establishing healthy sleep habits early on can significantly reduce the risk of such issues. Reduced Risk of Mental Health Disorders : Research suggests that inadequate sleep during childhood is associated with an increased risk of mental health disorders later in life, including anxiety, depression, and ADHD. Strategies for Promoting Healthy Sleep Given the critical role of sleep in mental health for both parents and children, it's essential to prioritize sleep hygiene and establish healthy sleep habits. Here are some strategies to promote better sleep: Consistent Bedtime Routine: Establish a consistent bedtime routine for both parents and children. A calming bedtime routine signals to the body that it's time to wind down and prepare for sleep. Create a Sleep-Conducive Environment: Ensure that the bedroom environment is conducive to sleep . This includes keeping the room dark, quiet, and at a comfortable temperature. Limit Screen Time: Minimize screen time, especially before bedtime, as exposure to screens can interfere with melatonin production and disrupt sleep patterns. Encourage Physical Activity: Regular physical activity during the day can promote better sleep at night. Encourage children to engage in active play and ensure that parents incorporate exercise into their daily routine as well. Healthy Sleep Associations: Help children develop healthy sleep associations by associating bedtime with soothing activities such as reading or gentle music. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Teach children and parents relaxation techniques such as deep breathing exercises or guided imagery to promote relaxation and stress relief before bedtime. Seek Professional Help When Needed: If sleep problems persist despite implementing these strategies, seek guidance from a healthcare professional or sleep specialist. You can always schedule a discovery call with me to discuss whether working with me will help your little one get a better night sleep. For parents and children alike, prioritizing sleep is essential for maintaining emotional well-being, cognitive function, and overall health. By recognizing the importance of sleep and implementing strategies to promote healthy sleep habits, parents can nurture a positive sleep environment for themselves and their children, laying the foundation for a lifetime of mental wellness.

The Sleep Journey: Nurturing Well-Rested Children from Birth to Teenage Years

By lbenjell • April 24, 2024
Sleep is the cornerstone of our well-being, especially for children whose growing bodies and minds depend on it for optimal development. As parents, we often hear about the significance of sleep, yet understanding the specific needs of our children at different stages of their lives can be the key to ensuring they thrive. In this comprehensive guide, we'll delve into the importance of sleep for children and explore the recommended amount of sleep they need from birth into their teenage years. Birth to 12 Months: During the first year of life, sleep is not just vital; it's foundational. Infants spend a significant portion of their time sleeping, with newborns needing around 14-17 hours of sleep per day. As they grow, the total sleep hours gradually decrease, but the importance remains unchanged. Sleep is crucial for their physical growth, cognitive development, and emotional well-being. Establishing healthy sleep habits early on can lay the groundwork for a lifetime of restful sleep. 1 to 3 Years Old: Toddlers are bundles of energy, constantly exploring the world around them. Despite their boundless enthusiasm, they still require ample sleep to support their rapid development. Children aged 1 to 3 years typically need about 12-14 hours of sleep per day, including naps. Consistent bedtime routines and a conducive sleep environment can help toddlers settle into a restful night's sleep, setting the stage for their busy days ahead. 4 to 6 Years Old: As children transition into preschoolers and embark on new adventures, their sleep needs evolve yet again. Preschool-aged children typically require 10-12 hours of sleep per night. Quality sleep at this stage is essential for consolidating learning, enhancing memory, and regulating emotions. Encouraging a consistent sleep schedule and minimizing screen time before bedtime can promote healthier sleep habits in young children. 7 to 12 Years Old: As children enter the school-age years, the demands of academics, extracurricular activities, and social interactions can sometimes encroach on their sleep. However, prioritizing sleep remains crucial for their overall well-being. School-aged children generally need 9-11 hours of sleep each night. Adequate sleep supports cognitive function, academic performance, and physical health. By fostering a sleep-friendly environment and promoting a regular bedtime routine, parents can help their children meet their sleep needs even amidst busy schedules. Teenage Years: The teenage years mark a period of significant change, both physically and emotionally. Amidst academic pressures, social activities, and technological distractions, teenagers often find themselves grappling with sleep deprivation. Yet, prioritizing sleep during adolescence is more critical than ever. Teenagers typically require 8-10 hours of sleep per night, yet many fall short of this recommendation. Sleep plays a vital role in adolescent development, impacting mood regulation, cognitive function, and physical health. Establishing healthy sleep habits, such as limiting caffeine intake and creating a sleep-conducive environment, can empower teenagers to prioritize rest and reap the benefits of adequate sleep. Sleep is not a luxury; it's a necessity, especially for children whose growing bodies and minds depend on it for optimal development. From birth through the teenage years, the importance of sleep remains constant, evolving alongside the child's changing needs. By understanding the recommended amount of sleep for each stage of childhood and implementing strategies to support healthy sleep habits, parents can empower their children to thrive and reach their full potential. If you find that your children are falling short of the recommended hours of sleep or struggling with sleep-related challenges, don't hesitate to take action. A personalized approach to addressing sleep issues can make a world of difference for your family. I invite you to book a discovery call with me at One2Sleep Consulting. Together, we can explore your family's unique sleep needs and develop a tailored plan to promote restful sleep and overall well-being for your children. Let's embark on this journey toward better sleep together. Your family's good night's sleep starts here.
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