The only constant about baby sleep is that there is no constant. Am I right? Just when you feel like you have a rhythm, you figured out what your baby needs and you can rely on somewhat of a schedule, BAM! things change. In comes a nap transition and with it comes changing schedules, an adjustment period, some over tiredness and maybe even some early morning wakes. This blog post is one of four in a series of posts delving into the world of nap transitions. To read more about the 3-2 transition, you can click here.
Right when you feel as though you’ve fallen in the grove with your child’s naps – you know when they’re going to happen and how long they’re going to last – the next nap transition pops around the corner to disrupt things again.
While all of the nap transitions can bring unique challenges, the 2 to 1 nap transition is often rough because we’re nearly doubling our child’s awake windows. For some children, this transition is forced upon them, like if they’re starting daycare and will be on one nap, and for others, they gradually transition into a 1-nap schedule.
If your child’s daycare requires them to be on a 1-nap schedule, head over to
this blog
for a few tips on managing your child’s sleep.
But if you’re in the other category and you think your little one is ready for 1 nap, read on for the signs and tips to make this transition as seamless as possible.
The Signs
If you think your child is ready to drop down on the number of naps they’re taking, I first encourage you to wait. Typically, parents drop to one nap because their child was fighting one of their two naps.
But in the 12-month vicinity, it’s not uncommon to see a nap strike. This isn’t a sign that your child is ready to drop to one nap permanently, and if you keep offering the second nap, it usually will return.
So before you make any changes to your child’s schedule, I first encourage you to give it two weeks of offering your child both naps, adjusting the timing if needed. For example, if your child has been skipping their first nap, you can consider offering it to them at a little later time and then capping their nap.
While all children will be ready to drop to one nap at their own time, here are a few signs your child may be ready:
- Your baby is between 15-18 months old
- Your child consistently skips one of their naps, and after waiting two weeks, it doesn’t return
- In some cases, night wakes will become more frequent due to your little one getting too much daytime sleep
When you have identified that your child is in fact ready for 1 nap and they’re not just in a little strike or regression, then it’s time to make changes to their schedule.
The Transition
Depending on your child, you may notice that they’ve been skipping one of their naps.
If your child is skipping their first nap, I find that’s usually the easiest to handle. You can make the second nap slightly earlier for a few days and then bring bedtime earlier also.
If it’s the second nap that’s skipped, the task can be a little more difficult. Around 11 a.m., offer your child their first nap. This can be hard for some children, as they aren’t used to staying awake that long. Get creative in keeping them awake and engaged: play outdoors, introduce a new activity or have an impromptu snack party! It goes without saying that bedtime will have to be earlier as well since the nap is earlier than usual.
Then, after 3-4 days, you can move that nap time 15-30 minutes later. After a few days, you can move it another 15-30 minutes later until you reach your target nap time.
Once you get to around 12:30/1 p.m., you can leave it there, depending on what time your little one wakes up for the day.
In some cases, you may need to do a bigger morning block or a bigger evening block, but you can make that determination based on your child’s needs and capacity.
Secrets of the 1-Nap Schedule
Making this transition takes a while, and it’s important to remember to keep the bedtime earlier during this adjustment period.
I’ve also noticed that early morning wakes can creep up during this transition, so if you find that happening with your little one, here’s a tip for you:
Wait until the “okay to wake” time.
If your child wakes up at 5 a.m. but their “okay to wake” time is 6 a.m., wait until 6 a.m. to get them out of bed to start the day.
If you go in at 5 a.m. and get started with the day, your child may adapt to that schedule and begin waking early consistently.
If the thought of making this transition alone is overwhelming, I invite you to schedule a
20-minute Discovery Call
with me. During our call, we can chat about your child’s current sleep situation, what’s causing the overwhelm, and how I can support you through the process.
Making changes in your child’s routine and sleep habits is never easy.
But together, we can ensure everyone in your house is getting the sleep they need to be the most confident, well-rested version of themselves possible.
I can’t wait to chat more with you!